I%26#039;m so sad and NEED ADVICE ASAP. BEFORE MY OPPORTUNITY IS GONE...??? im 16. there%26#039;s this guy at my school who i would always notice staring at me. like last year at lunch i would be walking with my friend and he would be standing in a circle w/ his group of friends but his eyes would be on ME. and i was like 30 feet away. but i ignore his glance. the most recent time was about 1 month ago. he was sitting a few seats behind me in my class and i was turned around talking to this girl behind me and he turned his body so he could look at me. i ignored him again. but here%26#039;s the thing i%26#039;m like him SO MUCH..but i can%26#039;t bring myself to look at him, its too emotional and it freaks me out. it might be awkward. today i was walking out of my class and he was outside the door kinda and i just totally didn%26#039;t even look where he was. he probably thinks im a major B**** now...but i don%26#039;t know how to talk to him? he sits on the other side of the room- the first day of class he sat behind me but i moved to be nearer my friends. but also b/c it made me feel nervous b/c

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7 months ago

i just like him SO much. i don%26#039;t know why i can%26#039;t bring myself to make eyecontact with him. i have intense feelings for him..it%26#039;s breaking my heart..i don%26#039;t know how to talk to him...and i can%26#039;t make eyecontact..im losing this opportunity what do i do?

im scared of approaching him b/c what if he doesn%26#039;t even like me???? ummmm and i have liked him intensely for over a year now..i was having these intense feelings for him starting LAST december- now over a year ago. the feelings won%26#039;t fade like the do for other guys i like.

Best Answer

**GO WITH THE FEAR**
Stare back at him, if you cant do that at first, catch his eye quickly then look away, give him a smile. Its such a rush when you make eye contact with someone you like for the first time. Hes gonna start feeling rejected if you keep ingnoring him, just glance and smile, it wont kill you!!

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ok thanks

Other Answers (11)

• This one is pretty easy, but it will take some guts. Write your phone number down on a piece of paper, walk up to him and look him in the eye. Say %26quot;Are you going to call me or what?%26quot;. No conversation at that point (It will take the pressure off.) It appears confident, and if he calls, you know. If he doesn%26#039;t at least you know.
  
  Don%26#039;t worry, you%26#039;ll be ok.
• Just tell yourself over and over, %26quot;it%26#039;s not what others think about me but what I think about them%26quot;. I might help you build some confidence.
• I%26#039;m wondering why he doesn%26#039;t come up and talk to you?
  
  I%26#039;d suggest the next time you are a short distance from him and he is hanging out with his friends and you with yours, if you know he is looking at you, just look up and briefly make eye contact with him and smile; hold eye contact for just a short time, then resume having a good time with your friends. The responsibility for this doesn%26#039;t just lie with you; if he is looking at you because he likes you, some recognition from you will help him feel more comfortable at approaching you.
• Fighting is ok too you know.
• Maybe have a friend talk to him and see if he likes you.
• what does this have to do about environment. DUHHHHHHH
• Ummm... this doesn%26#039;t relate to the environment.
  
  But to give my opinion... You should just talk to him. I know it sounds difficult and scary, but it%26#039;s not. The next time you see him staring at you, smile.
• I call this puppy love it seen like he like you the next time you see him wave at him are just say hi if you see him doing lunch time sit beside r ask him would it be OK if I sit here as him his name you have to start some where good luck
• I think that you should try to muster up some courage and show him that you atleast notice that he exists. The next time that you notice him looking at you, try atleast looking in his direction and smiling or waving. I know it seems impossible but think about this, by not trying you might regret never giving it a try. Trust me you don%26#039;t want to live your life thinking %26quot;what if...%26quot;
• Don%26#039;t be foolish this is a chance you may never get again so if he rejects you move on but, if he has had his eyes on you. you should go and snag him.