I need a good comeback, Help plz?? Okay, So I have this gay supervisor, when I say gay, I mean he’s a homo, so about 3 times a day for five days, he comes over to my desk and looks over my shoulder, and then he asks me “Ruben, Have you been a naughty boy today”, and I always give him the same answer, I just nod my head, yea, I guess. I know he’s flirting with me and I hate it cause I’m straight, but I want to say something next time so he knows im feeling uncomfortable but in a nice way, so thus, I need a good comenack. Help. Thanks!

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3 days ago

I meant to say I shake my head no,

3 days ago

I meant to say I shake my head no,

Best Answer

Why don%26#039;t you flat out tell him how you feel? This harassment won%26#039;t stop unless you tell him how you feel. The next time he says something like that to you, tell him, %26quot;No, I am feeling perfectly fine today, you ask me this everyday, and the answer will be the same everyday. I am 100% straight. You are a co-worker and I%26#039;m not looking for anything more.%26quot; If he continues, report him to a higher official.

Good luck.

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tks!

Other Answers (3)

• First of all, I think you%26#039;re being a little callous in your gay comments. I%26#039;m gay so maybe that%26#039;s why I%26#039;m sensitive to this. This sounds like sexual harassment to me, tell him you don%26#039;t appreciate those comments or just say, %26quot;I don%26#039;t know what you%26#039;re talking about%26quot;. If he doesn%26#039;t stop you should tell someone in HR or another manager that this makes you uncomfortable.
• What the hell does this have to do with the environment? If you feel you are being harassed then file a harassment claim against the guy.
• um..say no instead of yeah.